My husband has a "hard time" getting sexually stimulated unless it is anal-oriented. I questioned his sexuality several times. I questioned whether he is attracted to me or what is the problem.

My girlfriend reaches orgasm within seconds then loses interest and doesn't want to be touched.

Dr. Ruth, I have not had sex with my husband for about a year now. I was recently pregnant and then I gained weight and felt uncomfortable. He stopped pursuing me and we both just got used to sleeping in the same bed, but simply not being intimate. We were more parents and roommates.