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Been married for 14 years and my wife has no sex drive
Image My wife and I have been married for 14 years, and obviously since I'm writing this, things aren't going so well. My wife has no sex drive at all...none. We've talked about it, fought about it, and talked and fought about it some more but things don't seem to get better. I try to be understanding and end up frustrated. It's an ongoing issue that is seeming insurmountable as time creeps by... When we first married, things were never really passionate, but my wife did participate and seem to enjoy somewhat. We've had 2 children together. Our sex life consists of me asking for sex (my wife has only initiated making love a very small handful of times, her sighing and acting miffed (but she usually submits b/c she is under the impression that it is her duty to have sex with her husband), me asking how she would like to proceed in fooling around (we have 2 positions to chose from), and me performing the act. I ask permission to please her in other ways and I'm denied, she doesn't participate at all, and doesn't reciprocate anything... she hasn't touched me in years, and gives me grandma kisses (never open mouth)... and... she sleeps in the same bed as our children (not me)... and she thinks this is normal... (you know, when I'm writing this down, I realize just how messed up things are...) I have begged my wife to see some sort of counselor with me, but she refuses because she is very shy. I don't think she is having an affair, I have never had an affair and am absolutely faithful, I'm not bad looking, I'm healthy, I don't smoke, do drugs, drink heavily... I am a good provider... I am a good husband other than my wife asking me to help out more around the house... I don't get it... did I do something that my wife can't forgive me for? ( I don't think so...?) is my wife in love with someone else? do I give off an odor she doesn't like? I see and hear of other couples with great relationships and they enjoy each other sexually as well. I am hurt and angry... It would be different if my wife indicated that she wanted to make things better. Recently she implied that this is who she is... this is it, and it's not going to get better... I just about died inside... What do I do? I love her, but my heart feels like it's in a vice.
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Cannot orgasm without using his hand
Image My fiancé has watched porn and used escorts for many years as he is a over the road truck driver, He stopped using escorts when we met and I thought he had stopped using porn but have found out that he still is. He say's he is addicted, The problem is he cannot have an orgasm without using his hand. He claims that when he was in a motorcycle accident in his early 20's and had a closed head injury he was told that he would have problems with reaching orgasm. However he has told me that with certain women he was able to achieve an orgasm during intercourse but not with all women. We have been to a urologist and everything is fine. Is it possible that he has become so used to his hand and porn that he can not have a NORMAL sexual relationship? Or is it me? I am very attractive and keep in great shape and don't want to abandon this relationship but I am having a hard time dealing with 2 hour's of making love only to have the end result always' the same (meaning him not able to achieve an orgasm) Any insight on this matter would be greatly appreciated. Confused and searching for answers…
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Having a Relationship with a Married Man
Image I would very much appreciate your view on the situation I found myself. I have been dating a married man for more than two years. When we started our relationship he has been married for 15 years, without children. He claimed to have a good wife, but would not be sexually attracted by her. Despite him being married, our relationship was very intense and we met every day, including weekends. At the beginning of our affair things were turbulent and while we broke up he had another affair. I gave him another chance, but remained skeptical. This led to several other arguments, in the meantime his wife found out for us and insisted to have a baby. She also had an affair in the meantime. They have a baby now, but he is not happy and continues contacting me. Would you think their marriage is a good one and can last and what, in you view, position should I take?
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My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in 6 months
My boyfriend & I haven't had sex in almost 6 months. We've had our trust issues in the past, but I thought we were getting through them. He barely touches me & prefers to play video games to escape having to talk to me. When I bring up the subject of no sex, he simply says it's his problem & he's dealing with it, blah, blah, blah. I'm back to square one where I feel like he's being unfaithful (he keeps his phone with him at ALL times on vibrate & his computer now has a password so I can't log on). I've caught him looking at porn in the past & it's upset me as he can look at that, but won't even touch me. I don't know what to do...it's gotten to the point where I'm a little turned off by him & now I don't even try to initiate any kind of affection. We live together & I feel like we're just going through the motions because we're both so comfortable. I don't know what to do or how to feel. Help me understand what is going on & what I should do.
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I have fantasies about threesomes with my husband and another woman
Image I've been married for three years. I often have fantasies about me and him having a threesome with another woman. I really want to have one but how should I go about getting my husband to be on board and how do I find the right girl?? Sometimes I bring it up and it makes him horny of course but he thinks I might chicken out. But ummm no I won't I really want this!
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