My fiancé is no longer interested in sex. I had hoped that this was a phase, but 6 months later I'm really worried. I have tried everything, surprising him in sexy lingerie, cooking wonderful meals and decorating our home and doing so on a very tight budget. The only thing that’s worked thus far was when I told him that since he wasn't wanting to have sex, that we should just wait until our wedding in a year and a half.

My boyfriend has a lot of trouble achieving an orgasm, especially with a condom. He's very good at getting me off, and he usually does so multiple times, but sometimes he can go for hours and not get anywhere himself. Then we just stop because he's tired. He's been able to do it twice, both times without a condom. I'm on birth control pills, so I'm not overly worried, but I like condoms and find some of them quite sexy. We're both 23 and he was a virgin until me. Do you have some advice to help him? He's very sweet, and I would like him to feel as good as he makes me feel.

My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for about the past month. We were both virgins when we started having sex and I expected pain, but not every time. We have had sex multiple times and every time he tries to go inside of me, it hurts a lot. He needs to go really slow in and his movements need to stay slow until the pain goes away, which is usually a few good seconds later. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to make the pain go away?

I have never experienced an orgasm and have tried to masturbate towards one [by touching my clitoris using varying degrees of pressure, penetrating myself with my finger and or the bullet] but been unsuccessful.  I usually end up frustrated and give up.  My boyfriend inquired as to whether I even knew what one feels like, because while engaging in oral sex he says that he felt me spasm.  He said he wouldn't call it the big O but that it was progress.  He even bought me a bullet that we tried. But even with the bullet I've not reached orgasm.