I'm a virgin, but been wanting sex really bad. I was thinking about a dildo. I need to know if you can use a dildo while still being a virgin? Is it safe? is it healthy? I need to know ASAP, because it is important to know at this time.

I am a healthy married female in my mid 30's. I have never had an orgasm. What I mean to say is. I have had many missed orgasms, but never an orgasm. When I get too excited I lose bladder control. It is not female ejaculate that much I do know. How do I know if I have had an orgasm? Help me before I am too old. 

It seems to me that my husband does not like to give me oral sex. I never liked to give it to him before either, but now I like it. Is there anyway that maybe he will come to like to give it to me? Is their something I can do to encourage it? I am a little afraid of getting it, since we have never been with anyone sexually but each other I have never gotten it done to me. I am at a point in my life now that I really want to have this experience. What should I do? I don’t want him to do it to me if he hates it. HELP me Please.

I am 25 weeks pregnant, and as you can imagine, sex is quite a challenge! My hubby and I have heard about the Westheimer position being a good one for pregnant couples. I cannot find anything on it and nobody seems to know what it is! Can you help?