I am 19 years old and I am thinking whether I should have sex with my boyfriend or not. He is 32 and he also has got another girlfriend for 4 years (I guess she is in her mid-twentys). So these two facts make me think about if I am doing the right thing. Having the first time sex with a more experienced man may be better because he is also very careful when we are together (and he knows how to touch a woman)  but I do not know if I am doing the right thing. I do not really love him but I think he is physically and sexually very attractive.

I am currently deployed and have not had sex in 9 months so I ordered a toy on the internet. When I told my husband he got upset almost like I was cheating on him. How do I make him comfortable with the idea of me having a toy, and make him feel like I'm not replacing him. I don't understand why he got mad.

My boyfriend of 6 years never ejaculates inside of me. He always wants me to do it orally. Yes I can get pregnant, but if he loves me wouldn't he want to see my face when he reaches his orgasm? Am I overreacting to feel as if we are only having sex rather than making love because of this? Help! I love him and we plan on getting married in a few years, I am feeling that we are not having a normal sex life like other couples. Please help, I'm 37.