Dr. Ruth's Q & A
 I’ve been with a man I love for 5 years. We used to have a great sex life, but it's been almost 2 years that he’s been totally not interested.
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What do you do about vaginal dryness...50 years old...menopause....nothing works....and want to still be very sexually active with my husband....it hurts!!!!!!!!! |
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My fiancé and I have been together for a year and a half, and the only way
that I can usually have an orgasm is when I'm on top, but I have to be
riding him really hard and fast and stimulate the clit, to even do that.
When I'm on the bottom it's really hard for me to have an orgasm and every
once in awhile I might have one, but not usually. Why is it hard for me to
have an orgasm and why does the clit have to be stimulated for an orgasm and
I can't have one with the G spot? I don't want to have to rough every time I
want to hit the big "O". We also have anal sex, is there a way to orgasm
that way?
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I was with my husband for 8 years when we got divorced. The reasons were due to the lack of sex on his part and his porn problem.
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I am madly in love with a wonderful, beautiful woman. We have been together for three years, married for one. (We are in our late 30s). I am wildly romantic -- surprise picnics, good morning notes, playful and amorous. For the first 1 1/2 years of our relationship, my wife reciprocated. In fact, often, she initiated -- both the romance, the courtship, and the sexual relationship, which was delicious and hungry, but also deeply and soulfully connecting. It was amazing.
Eighteen months ago, she was diagnosed with genital herpes. I do not have it -- absolutely, no how, no way. I have been tested multiple times with the most accurate tests available. And she has been faithful, absolutely, 100% -- though, as a woman in her late 30s, she's had a fair amount of sexual partners. Since the diagnosis, our sex life has gone from being extraordinary to confused to sad to erratic to divisive to virtually non-existent. She has frequent outbreaks, despite best efforts to control the health problem. She refuses to give or receive oral sex, in fear that one of us will contract the virus on our mouths as a result. She rarely accepts my advances, let alone initiates intimate relations. She says she is always having an outbreak or on the verge of having an outbreak, and doesn't believe there is much urgency to our sex life unless we can both "benefit." I am completely devastated.
It's been weeks since we've been intimate at all. Recently, I was stunned when she began to touch me while we were watching a movie. But the touch was lackluster, disconnected, like she really wasn't present. Then it all became clear: she asked me if I could move my arm because she couldn't see the movie. No wonder her touch was lackluster. I asked her to please choose between touching me or watching the movie. She did. The movie continued to play.
I am a good husband, a good man, and I can only guess that all of this is some sort of ongoing reaction to the medical condition. But I have no idea how to handle this, or how to remain connected to my wife. (It is true, incidentally; sex is a very powerful method of connection for men). I have tried giving her space and time, support and understanding. I have tried taking the initiative. I have tried deferring to her. Nothing seems to work. I feel emasculated, taken for granted, and like my wife finds me entirely undesirable.
It is hard to let go of mourning the incredible sex life we once had.
Any advice you might have for how to support my wife, reignite our sex life, etc., would be greatly appreciated. Perhaps someone out there has dealt with a similar situation in a productive way? I'd love to hear from you.
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