I'm 37, married for 4 yrs, had 2 kids, tubes tied and lost the desire to have sex. I became very dry, and I don't know if I have ever had an orgasm.  I thought I was having some of the other signs of menopause, but my doctor ran tests, and she said everything is fine. She said I'm not in menopause and to see a normal doc that I am depressed.  But I DON'T feel that way!!! I just want to want to be with my hubby!!! Now he is the horneiest thing I have ever seen and it is very hard to deal with.  What can I do with my self?  HELP PLEASE!!!!!!