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My boyfriend & I haven't had sex in almost 6 months. We've had our trust issues in the past, but I thought we were getting through them. He barely touches me & prefers to play video games to escape having to talk to me. When I bring up the subject of no sex, he simply says it's his problem & he's dealing with it, blah, blah, blah. I'm back to square one where I feel like he's being unfaithful (he keeps his phone with him at ALL times on vibrate & his computer now has a password so I can't log on). I've caught him looking at porn in the past & it's upset me as he can look at that, but won't even touch me. I don't know what to do...it's gotten to the point where I'm a little turned off by him & now I don't even try to initiate any kind of affection. We live together & I feel like we're just going through the motions because we're both so comfortable. I don't know what to do or how to feel. Help me understand what is going on & what I should do. |
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 I hope I am presenting a fixable problem here. I am an attractive woman except for having A cup breasts. When I was younger I was more confident because I thought my sex partners liked me but now my husband and I for about 5 years have virtually no attraction. Well what I mean is that although I did feel that he was strongly attracted to me then he can’t fake attraction for me now. Clearly he has to force himself to look at me and he never ever reacts to me visually. I am a former model and my body is very skinny I guess I look body wise like very skinny with somewhat of a butt. I am wondering what to do when I have sex as I feel stupid when I am on top and he never wants to look at me like before or when we have sex he never wants to use mirrors like before or even ever look at me. If I playfully move my eyes and head to be in his vision when he is looking
away he gets very angry and makes derisive faces.
I am not that old- 39 barely old enuf 4 milf porn. I am loosing confidence in a man who will look around and away when I am naked. I feel sexy and beautiful when I am alone, but something has flipped a switch for us as he went from getting excited from seeing me naked for several years then one day wham when I was showing him my body he made
a disgusted face and said I should not expect to get sex just from showing him my body. From then on for 5 years he does not look me in the eye and avoids coming in the bedroom with me and looking at me and when we have sex he closes his eyes the whole time and has to force himself to look at me. I can tell and feel his disgust for me as it
is such a contrast to what our sex was before. I have tried to speak with him about it but it seems to hurt him so I stopped bringing it up. Why make him hate me more. He constantly says he loves me btw.
Btw I don’t look all that different than my 20s and I weigh less than in my 20s (5'6" 110 lbs currently) red blonde hair green eyes. When I did oral with my former boyfriends they said things like 'YOU CAN KNOCK A MAN DOWN" AND Wow you are the best at oral and similar comments. When I blow my man he doesn’t want to watch and he never
EVER initiates any type of sex. I feel like he doesn’t want me and I would rather masturbate than take the humiliation of his low interest. He says he never masturbates even tho we went a year without sex recently and all because I refused to initiate sex so he never initiated sex either. Is there a way for a flat girl in a big booby sex world can find sex techniques that makes him want me? I am confident except when with him. He says he wants never to leave when I tell him it is ok to leave if he feels bad staying with me. I am not some insecure psycho that is creating this by making him resent me
with complaining, This is simply about his sudden and persistent lack of attraction after a history with me earlier of sustained and strong attraction.
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I buy my girlfriend sexy lingerie for her to wear from time to time. She is 52 and has a great body and nice legs, I love her the way she is but I don’t think there is anything wrong with me wanting her to wear sexy lingerie once in a while. I’m just trying to spice up our sex life. I also like it when she wears black nylons, Am I wrong? |
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I am a twenty-four old female living with my fiancé. I feel for him sexually every day for most of the day. I try masturbating when I'm alone but it doesn't make me any less horny, not even after having sex with him. I have multiple orgasms during oral sex and intercourse, so why do I still feel like that? He had been so tired lately I'm afraid to approach him. What should I do? |
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Sometimes, while my fiancé and I are having sex (and mostly in rear entry positions, and never when I'm on top) it feels like he is hitting a bone or something when he thrusts. It hurts almost enough to make me cry, and we try to angle differently, but it doesn't help. Rear entry positions are our absolute favorites, but does this mean we have to give them up forever? Or should I see a doctor? Is this normal? |
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