Dr. Ruth's Q & A
 I would very much appreciate your view on the situation I found myself. I
have been dating a married man for more than two years. When we started our
relationship he has been married for 15 years, without children. He claimed
to have a good wife, but would not be sexually attracted by her. Despite
him being married, our relationship was very intense and we met every day,
including weekends. At the beginning of our affair things were turbulent and
while we broke up he had another affair. I gave him another chance, but
remained skeptical. This led to several other arguments, in the meantime
his wife found out for us and insisted to have a baby. She also had an
affair in the meantime. They have a baby now, but he is not happy and
continues contacting me. Would you think their marriage is a good one and
can last and what, in you view, position should I take?
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I've been married to my husband for only 1 1/2 years. We have a 7 month old baby. He started not wanting to have sex while I was pregnant and now still seems not attracted to me. I didn't gain much weight and look the same now as I did when we met. When we do have sex there is no foreplay and feels
very awkward. He can only have an orgasm with me on my stomach. This makes
me feel like he doesn't want to look at me. He never touches me down there
so I don't know if he is grossed out since the baby or just not attracted to
me anymore. Please help! I don't know how to address this without hurting
his feelings.
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I am 25 years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend
for 6 years. He is the only serious mate I have ever had and I am
about to leave to pursue a Master's degree in another country. I have
never been apart from him for any long period of time and the reality
is now setting in for both of us. He has mentioned taking a break from
the relationship just in case it may mean that our careers may take us
in other directions. However, I think we have resolved that situation
and we are going to try to make it work for the 1 year duration of my
Master's degree program. Practically, it may be feasible for him to
visit me once in 2 or 3 months, but bearing in mind that soon he will
also be pursing his Master's degree, I don't want to put him on such
an obligation.
I know for a fact that I am not a fan of communicating via telephone
or instant messaging on the internet with him...I find that somewhere
our true emotions get lost and we work better when we can see and feel
each other. Phone conversations can get boring and routine and lately
I realize that we now have a daily 'format'. "How are you, how was
your day, what are you going to do tonight?" - that is actually the
order and format. I am afraid our relationship will get boring once
the physical distance between us increases.
Dr. Ruth, we have already discussed marriage by the time we both turn
28 or so and we even discussed having children and how many we would
ideally like to have (he wants lots! like 5...) Should I really be
worrying if this relationship will work out? I would like some advice
on maintaining this long-distance relationship.
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I have been dating a man for about the past 4 months. We usually have sex at least once a day, but we are having a few problems.
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I was with my husband for 8 years when we got divorced. The reasons were due to the lack of sex on his part and his porn problem.
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