Dr. Ruth's Q & A
 My husband is 35 and I am 34. My husband is making alot of comments about how I am a grown woman and I don't know how to put on make-up (I don't wear it, only lipstick and how I don't wear heels nor get my nails painted. I was never the type of woman who would wear all of that stuff and he knows this.
This is how he met me. I am beginning to feel uncomfortable about these
comments. I spoke with him and he said it just irritates him that I don't
know how to do these things. I believe he is looking at other women. I am
a plain Jane. I am a full-time nursing student, we have 4 small children
(1,3,6,8) leaving me 45 pounds heavier than I was when we first met and
he is the only one working (for a paycheck; NOT in the house, if you know
what I mean). We've been together for over 12 years, married only one.I
feel like I don't know how to bring sexy back. I haven't felt sexy in over 4
years. Please help me.
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I am 21 and my boyfriend is almost 30. We have been together about 3 1/2 years and I love him very much. Neither of us are significantly over weight. We plan on getting married in the future, but I am worried about his lack of sexual desire. I know that I have a veracious appetite for sex, but he rarely wants to make any sexual or romantic contact whatsoever. I will try not to ask or hint at trying to have sex, but when I do I am promptly turned down with a multitude of excuses accompanied by a whiny little voice. His complaints are very discouraging, but I'm willing to do anything to please him. I will stop asking, and nothing about sex will be uttered by either of us for almost 2 weeks. By then I am about to scream from the lack of attention, so I try to be sexy and come on to him. I really have tried having patience and giving him space and tried to initiate things. We aren't married and I am concerned about his unwillingness to compromise, or notice my needs, will cause problems in our relationship and our ability to start a family. We are very much in love and I'm very happy to be with him! I have asked him to go to the doctor to see if it may be lack of sleep or depression, but he puts it off like it is all right to be intimate once or twice a month (even though he knows it makes me feel very lonely and unneeded). In addition to this when we do have intercourse he gets in, gets off and goes about doing other things before I know it. I'm on the pill and we regularly use condoms, yet he still pulls out (even after using the condom, the pills and being together for years). He says he wants to get married in the next year or so, but it is hard to be with someone that ignores that sex even goes on in normal relationships. HELP ME! What is going on? Am I just addicted to him or is there something abnormal about us? |
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My fiancé and I have been together for 6 yrs now and in the beginning the sex was great! We had foreplay, romance etc.. but now it seems like it’s a chore to have sex. The foreplay & romance has STOPPED!! He is a wonderful man but he really isn't romantic at all. I initiated most of the romantic things. I was wondering if you could suggest a video or book that he can look at to help him with "what a woman wants". I don’t want to just have sex...I want him to make love to me!! We have done the porn thing and the toys but to me that’s just SEX not making love to a woman. where is the intimacy? I have suggested to him about body massages but get no response. I just don’t want to have sex anymore because I am not getting what I want and need. Any suggestions? |
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My husband and I have been together 11 years (happily married for six) and have a 2 year old son. We have a sturdy relationship, a great sex life, and love each other very much. However, we've both noticed that after sex we almost always have a huge fight mostly over things that aren't even that important. Why?
We both know this will happen and have even made efforts to keep our emotions at bay to keep the fights down, but its like we have a hormone surge or something and just can't help it!!! Whats going on?
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My girlfriend and I have known each other for 7 years and we've been dating for 3 1/2. Since I’ve known her she has told me that she couldn't achieve an orgasm while having sex but she could orally. I must admit this put a damper in my self esteem and as time went on I began to want less and less of her because I felt like she was just performing a duty. Well, three days before our anniversary she told me that she cheated. It wasn't spontaneously, it was plotted , planned and executed betrayal. She also revealed to me that she had achieved an orgasm with this man. I have no idea what to do and I have no one who I fell comfortable enough with to tell the entire story to. MY WORLD HAS BEEN SHATTERED , PLEASE HELP ! |
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